Long time no see...

So it's obviously been a super long time since I've written anything in this. My life has completely changed once again. I have a separate compartment in my brain that I've stored away thoughts I've wanted to put in this blog. I'm always like 'oh I need to write about this and talk about that.' see my computer kinda went on a vacation from working and hasn't come back. And writing this on my phone isn't super easy.. But I'll try. Last time I wrote in this for real, i had a different life, a different job, a car, someone else...but its all changed. Chili's was the first thing to change. I really enjoyed working there, for the most part. but I was so glad that is all done with. I was unemployed for about a week, then got a job bar tending downtown. Things were looking up. I then lost my car. I couldn't afford it is what it came down to..so they threw off my whole schedule. I had to work around when I could get a ride. My boss did not wanna work around this..so it eventually ended with me having to leave bc he thought bc i missed a shift one day due to transportation he would only schedule me on days i couldn't work and gave my good decent shifts i could make it to, to someone else. So forcing me to pretty much just leave. and yeah currently looking for work. I know it always seems to work out with me. Its just the always going crazy again that bothers me. Eh. what can you do. things happen for a reason, or that's what i am forced to believe in. So much has happened since April. Still living with Emily, which is always good. except my pipes kinda blew up in my house the other day...well my shower. So i have been out at Abby's until problem gets fixed. kinda been like a vacation except I'm really bored and shes been working. i envy that she has a job she loves...not the best people to work for but she loves it. I wanna find that so bad. I wanna work and have a stable income. I hate bar tending. its good money yeah but I'm so miserable when i do it. I thought it was chili's...buts its the job description. serving people...drunk people..i absolutely loathe it. Anyways. So me and Abby are back together. Crazy huh? yeah it works..i have no excuses for reasons other than I love her. Like i said lots have changed. Things have happened with certain people that i wouldn't take back for the world..but fate just works in weird ways i suppose..not to many crazy things have happened. Abby and I have met some awesome new people...got in touch with old people...not to many things like being held at gun point have happened to me...had some crazy gas station incidents that have happened that now make me terrified to get gas after dark. oh and I've been threatened by a lesbian that looks like woody Harrison..ahhh crazies. So what else. Derby..i should write in the derby blog...but I'm not feeling very motivated much to do so..i got injured before the Columbia game and I'm sad to say i wont be returning this season. Only because it been a awhile and it feels worse. And of course as my luck would have it..my insurance got screwed up due to something ridic..and yeah waiting for that to get reinstated but they are giving me the runaround..i never really understood how that all worked..but yeah my knee keeps me up and makes me ill a lot and I hate that. I know you have to push through things if you wanna come out on top..but sometimes it gets to be to much..and I literally get so tired. Derby was going so well for me..I was finally getting more comfortable with jamming...i got better skates from someone who cared to see me go far..and I just love derby so much. Its a very hard pill to swallow.

I have plans to move. maybe have a simple low key life at the beach. it cant be to hard. I have never been one to live above her means. simple is best for me. I'm glad things with Abby are gong well.it be nice to move away.. we both have to much stress around here and I need to get away from things that hold me down and confuse me just like she does.  isn't it funny how your life can change so fast. things you never thought would happen did..and things you want so badly to happen..most likely wont. This is a quote from a movie i love..and it makes me think a lot...makes sense to me.

" Look at us, running around. Always rushed, always late. I guess that's why they call it the human race. What we crave most in this world is connection. For some people it happens at first site. It's when you know you know. It's fate working its magic. And that's great for them. They get to live in a pop song. Ride the express train. But that's not the way it really works. For the rest of us, it's a bit less romantic. It's complicated, it's messy. It's about horrible timing, and fumbled opportunities. And not being able to say what you need to say when you need to say it. At least, that's the way it was for me.
Look at us Running around. Always rushed. Always late. Guess that's why they called it the human race. But sometimes, it slows down just enough for all the pieces fall into place Fate works it's magic. And you're connected.." i love that!!!!

 I'm really not sure where i fit in right now..if I'm doing the right things..if I'm making the right choices..have thoughts of what my life would be if i did this...or what my life would be if i did that...so i guess ill just put myself on auto pilot and see where I go...and see where I end up. I'm not really sure what else to write other than i know i have tons to talk about but don't want to anymore. BETTER WORK>SCHLAMS! that was for Shane. anyways, the ladies have a game tomorrow. so come out and support us! doors open at 630 at metrolina expo. 1 more home game after this.. DON'T MISS IT! Ill be an ambassador due to the knee and after might go to blue bar...its a nice new little lesbian bar. its different..but I'm sure in no time someone will screw it up with drama...and that sucks..but its nice to see everyone i haven't seen in awhile. OK I'm gonna be done now..Abby is getting home soon and i wanna find something to do. thanks for reading..

Peace out!
~Jenn~

rollercoaster;)

I think I am ready for this. No one needs to know...no one needs to give me their input. But I wanna know where this is gonna go. I am just ready for the great,.thats all. ok going out and gonna make tonight count..for what who knows. I am just happy at this moment..K BYEEEE!

Nothing important to name this one..

Its been awhile...this I know...Who knows what direction this one will go. Sleep..Hasn't been my friend lately..I finally broke down and got sleeping meds today. I haven't taken them yet...the first step was buying them..so ill stare at them for while and take them. Last time I took them they made my irritated and annoyed..but I am all of those things these days, so maybe it will reverse on me. So staring at this blank screen...I get distracted by everything..Maybe it because of how many people tell me they read this..I wanna make it interesting...Life has been pretty interesting lately..I spend all night texting someone I like..probably why I don't sleep...I have been dealing with a lot of mixed emotions and feelings from the past..I sometimes feel I need to act on them..But it would be healthy for everyone if I just moved on.

Ok so that was a long pause...i was writing that at 116am..and i got a call that lasted for almost an hour.it was nice to talk to someone about random things....then stayed in my bed.,. hahah so now its 6:24 pm Wed..Today has been a good day off. I am house sitting for someone this week so i went over to her house to hang out and learn what i need to do. So that will be fun. I have kinda had a chill day..i drove around and listened to Music and just relaxed. I wanted to stop and have a drink but realized I didn't really have anyone to hang out with. Sad:( So i didn't go...I came home and spent some of my time texting someone...i do text a lot. But i get bored so its ok. Got a derby game viewing tonight...so I prolly wont finish this...Im having a beer waiting on my besty to get home..that sounded gay...waiting on my koolest friend ever to get home EMILY!! Then we are gonna head to Dilworth to watch the game..Weds night are usually our nights to do something ridiculous..so who knows..

Work. I had a woman throw a mother effin salad at me yesterday. It put in to prospective how my whole life has become something I don't want. I am obsessing on things i don't need around. I am actually 100% ok with being alone with no commitments. It refreshing if i wanna go out with my drinking buddy ASHLEY NUGGET! and have a drink I dont have to ask..I dont have to explain..i just go..I mean I got a buddy,,.,,a derby wife...and a cougar! who needs anything else! bwahahaha..all there for me! Oooo and I got a little alien...Mike wazzzzzowski!!! hes fun too;) oh and a gay boy...GAGA...hmm i see a tv show coming..hahaha..anyways...youtube has me distracted.. i believe i was talking about work. I think its time I leave so im looking for anything...anything at all...that place has gotten out of control, so many lazy people...horrible costumers and just out of control people..hence the salad woman...i wish i got her name. i think it sounded something like mid evil bitch.

Flash forward to 2:32 am. Laying in bed. Emily passed out here. Long story. She's snoring. So cute! Nic is Down Stairs with his friend I met tonight She's Pretty Kool.. So he'll come up and steal her soon;). The game viewing was fun. We were all so excited the way we played and that we beat greenville. I need to catch up the derby blog... But I've been so busy I can hardly write in this one. My life pretty much is.... Well just is...

I work all the time. And when I'm not working I have derby... Then the times I'm off fly by so quick or I always have something to do.. It's so annoying!!!! I'm in severe need of a vacation.. This weekend I took off.. Bass church then we are all going to movie premier of Derby Baby in Atlanta.. Because our team was in it! So that's exciting!! We are gonna all hang out, do something fun..and just enjoy! I wish it were the beach though. Not gonna lie. I need a week at the beach vacation..

I feel like I'm writing out of my ass. I never say what I originally wanna say. My blogs use it be so much better.. I just guess I have so many more feelings I'm not ready to
Come to terms with yet.. So that gives u something to look forward to reading. Hahah anyways I'm closing this one out. Go read my past blogs. It will get u to know me more!! Thanks for reading!!

~jenn~

Storms scare me..

It's storming. Seems like the
First time since I've lived here. I'm laying in bed and it's dark and the lighting. Yikes. If you know me then you know exactly why I hate it. It's raining pretty bad here and the wind is
Shifting my window so it's knocking.
But it's peaceful. Lots changing around me just like this horrible weather. Mostly just like the sunny hot days I get my hopes up for something amazing only for it get dark and dreary again. It's ok, I don't much mind the dreary lately. Even if pain is what I feel it's lets me know I'm alive...I had a dream last night ...well several insane dreams. One was I wondered if I could
Make it alone. With out her.. Then I woke up scared and then realized it happened and I am and didn't know where I was.. That's the first time anything like that has ever happened to me. It threw me off. My dreams are insane lately. But I love dreaming. It's the number one reason I sleep. Otherwise sleep is a waste of time for me when there are so many other things I could be doing. I need to sleep. I picked up a double tomorrow. On a sat?! CIAA weekend?! I know. But if I don't work I literally go
Crazy out of my mind. I haven't been doing much lately.. We got the house we looked at so we are moving next week. It will be kinda nice that no one really knows where. I feel like I can start over. In a sense. My room is pretty awesome. And it has closets.. It's not a closet. Haha. Jk I love my little room.. But I can't wait to
Color coordinate my clothes again and hang them up;) I think it's a great place and me and Emily both wants dogs.. One that no one can take from me again. It has a nice fenced in yard and an art studio in back. Emily got excited and suggested I use it for my green screen and videos.. She's so supportive of me. And what I love. She's an amazing friend. I joke around and tell her if I ever decide to date agin that anyone i date prolly won't like her. But no one really understands our relationship. But I get long amazingly with her man friend mike wazowski! Haha. I have him that NIC-name hahah hes pretty Kool. And she smiles around him. So that good enough for me! But most people aren't Kool like that. We went on an outdoor skate tonight and it was so much fun.. She took me to a huge parking deck and we took the elevator up and flew down. It was so much fun. I was scared a little haha she's a daredevil. Then we skated back home. It was a fun night. And burped sushi all night bc we went to a cute little sushi place. And i got her hooked on Friday night lights which I'm sad to say ended. Rats!!

I hear so many sirens.. Perks of living next to the hospital. Sounds bad. There are a ton of them. People never know how to drive in this weather.

So I've had a couple of decent job opportunities. Waiting is the hardest part. Chilis is just well it's Chilis. The staff we have now are just..wow. I mean we have a few decent people. But man.. No work ethic. It's just overwhelming now. I'm ready for a
Change. In everything ...in life. Derby is the one thing I have going for me that I don't wanna change. Maybe be better and faster. Aspire to jam?! I don't know.. Could happen. But. Change is good. No more chasing someone
Who clearly never wanted me.. No more being silly and remembering why I am who I am.. And why most people love me. No more letting people make me feel unimportant. I've always been terrified to be alone. But I'm not now. It's hard hearing about the x and all she's done... Comes with having mutual friends. Realizing you were dumb and gullible is a hard pill to swallow. But its a lesson learned. I think I've just about figure out the perfect lay out of the common douche canoe and how to spot them. Prevent it from happening again. I have good people to talk to. Well one I live with me and one who I text alllllll the time. Who I wish i saw more!! I feel good knowing I have them to listen. I'm normally the listener. And everyone vents to me.

But things are looking up. Ready for this move and hopefully more work and more derby! Anyways that's about it. My random thoughts.. The storm is gone for the moment and now I can sleep. I'm weird about laying in bed alone when it storms. It's amazing and horrifying at the same time to me :-/ anyways thanks for reading. And yeah that's all I got...

~jenn~

Again..

Started this jan 26th:
I tired writing a while ago...three hours of thinking and writing and saving...and oh yeah vanishing! I have no idea where it went..i am really upset and glad all at the same time. I am not sure if I am in the mood to write any right now..I thought I would start and maybe see where it gets me. I started the last blog...off with a song ...then transitioned in to talking about how dumb I was i didn't see what was going on behind my back...once a cheat always....yadda yadda...then I quick turn to who cares....she never was gay to begin with...to what I really want out of life...and how I pretty much think I am never meant to find it...to...being ok content with my life, because at least I am not living a lie. I have always and will always appreciate everything I have been giving or worked hard for..Would you work hard for what you want or live a lie to get what you want? Life is more than new clothes and purses and new cars...I look at it several ways..Live the life you can afford...who cares ur gonna die anyways...or make life count while ur here...ur gonna die anyways..hahah

Not that I am negative..I just keep meeting complete jerks...who build me up only to let me down again. Here is a thought assholes....if I'm not worth ur time...don't waste it on me..I'm pretty content with honesty..almost everyone i seem to come in contact with has a hard time telling me the truth...why is this? just fucking do it. I assure you ...you wouldn't be the first nor the last disappointment of my life. This isn't aimed at anyone one in specific...just people in my life as a whole...grow some balls...and try be honest with the person you have now. I am pretty sure I have taken the role of good luck chuck...if u saw this then you know...2 girls I really cared about are married now...well 3.. and so if you dated me....get ready! hahaha   no but in all seriousness..I am glad they are happy..but just remember...before you decide to string someone a long...remember they have real feelings too...not just you. They actually matter..And if it wasn't what you wanted...its was probably OK to tell them...instead of lying and just hurting them..think about it. some people are just so insensitive and selfish.

Ok So it's Feb 9th now.. Much has happened since my last entry. Derby is going great.. Which I need to write in the derby blog.. Life is ok. Confusion. Still the same. Haha but when isn't it. Lots of changes made around me. I miss my mom. Going to NY in march to see her. So I'm excited about that. I had a dream last night that I was in a plane crash. Maybe bc my brother called me about flights. And that always happen. Random things i talk about get stored in my brain and I dream later. Hahah sometimes the dream are better than others. So yeah I'm laying in bed. Very sore from practice. It's getting brutal. But I like it. My body is getting in better shape everyday.. I'm starting to have more stamina and I'm so glad. Bc shits hard. Again this derby blog stuff but it seems to be my life right now. life. Not the best. But that's ok. I've met some Kool girls.. But I just am so emotionally blocked that i come off like I don't care. Most girls like this. Which is
Dumb. But after what I have been through I'm just plain scared.

There's been this one girl. Ooooooh this girl. She drives me crazy! Thats all I can say. Like literally. Things should just happen but I'm not sure if it's
Smart. I'm so stuck in my own scared little world that I just need to move away. Start over. And live another life hahah. If only it were that easy. It's never easy. Unless u have no soul and u move through person to person. Relationship to relationship.. How can u leave someone u love and immediately jump into it with someone else. When this happens to u, u really question if they ever loved you. And if they did. When did they stop. And better yet. Why? Simple question. Why? Why do people hurt other people. Why do people choose unimportant things over a life they chose with someone. Crazy. I love love. I do. I want everything to be a fairy tale. I'm just not all dreamy about it. Ive always been one to stick it out. Roll with punches. And never leave u hanging out to dry. But that's me. And no one is like me. That is for damn sure. I care so much about everything I piss myself off! Hahah. I literally think to myself. Why do I do this. Why do I care. But it's who I am. Glad I was born this way.

Enough of the gayness.. So my new hang out is Wild Wing Cafe. I "live" there hahah I'm not always out drinking so when u read my post don't be like damn drunk at it again! I'm not one of those people. But I like my company. And they like me. Even when I don't drink. Which is refreshing bc I hate hanging out with a bunch of alchys who want me to be at their level. Annoying!!! I don't always like to feel drunk and since I don't have a DD at all times. I don't really wanna spend the night in jail. Man cops are bad now. Like everywhere! Terrifies me. And living near uptown they are always out.

So yeah I guess not to much has gone on with me. Just getting pass the life that put me in a whole and trying
To move on to better things. With a better self esteem and better outlook. It's going ok so far. That's about all I got. I actually have another blog
I've written but it will
Come later. Still working on that. My writing, if u didn't know, is all over the place. Like my head, and thoughts. Alright I'm passing out. Gnight. Thanks for reading!

~Jenn~

My days...

So life is going ok these days. Working. Paying off my debts slowly but surely and derby! Can't complain. Just laying here. After derby me and super Rupar headed to jacks... Her bartender was there but mine wasn't:-/ oh well I got to see Scott! That was Kool!! It's been good to just be chill.. Been seeing Beth a lot too.. Which confuses people. I get it. Me and her went through shit and neither one of us were very nice to each other.nor proud of what happened. But I moved past it and so has she.. And I'm woman enough to admit. I kept ditching our friendship bc my x gf's... But why did I!? They never stood by me.. She did. She's a good friend. And well we all know I'm not a grudge holder. I seem to always defend the wrong people.
Bullocks.. Anyways. So yeah. It's been nice to be in a positive environment. Even though friends of friends report my fb says I party and get drunk I'm excited to say I have only been intoxicated 3 times since I moved down here... Hahah long story. Dumb really. And I don't understand the relevance of fb stalking. I mean if u stalk that's kool.. We all have done it. But don't criticize people for stuff ... Or say oooooo guess what i saw on jenns fb! This is gay. And i Mean that as in dumb. But gay;)-

I enjoy fb. For derby and just fun times but geeeezus I wanna delete it. I can't delete all crooked people from me.. But it be nice if people left me alone. Or say... Wow Jenns doing well that girl has been through a lot.. And she still shines even though her heart seems sad. I mean. That's the truth. I miss my mom more than anything. It's funny 1234 always had. Special meaning to me.. 1234 was when my mom pulled away in that car to NY.. Scared me bc I always knew something would happen with that number.. Weird.

I talked to her for awhile today and they really want me to come up on st.patricks day! Any takers? I don't wanna go alone.. El, my bro, says its a sight to see then! And my nieces are begging me to come play hiding go seek again. 2 hours on thanksgiving I played that with them! Crazy! So other than that. Things are pretty normal... Sleeps getting better.. Derbys making me eat more... So yeah. Not sure what else to write. Derby beat me up tonight so I'm exhausted! Time to pass out!!!! Work week of craziness ahead!! Thanks for reading!

~Jenn~

Taking it a day at a time..

So it's like week 2 of the new life I guess u could call it. Things are actually going better than I thought. Derby is going amazing. Which I plan to insert a derby blog in after this;) so I'll write about that more there. The different moving situation is more normal than I thought it would be.. Meaning I tend to not sleep well without being complete settled in. I haven't unpacked a thing and I'm living out of my clothes hamper. Which is Kool. I don't mind. it's a small room but ive made it cozy.. I have my squishy pillow and my fan. I'm good to go!

I've been hanging out with Emily more which is good for me. She always wants to do something be it going out or laying and watching law and order and that's good bc it keeps my mind off life and the past. She's a good friend. We went to jacks and i totally made fun of her flirting with the bartender. She said she's never taking me out when she flirts with guys again. I told her to help me flirt with a girl. Bc I'm horrible at it hahaha. Never been good at it really. Gonna try and change that. I've realized that until I become completely 100% comfortable with myself I'll never be able to actually confidently have a good relationship. Bc I'm always gonna be overlooked and not noticed. And there will always be someone or something better.. And I'm tired of feeling that. I want to be the someone or something better. I'm not looking for anything from anyone. I wanna meet new people and focus on derby. Bc that is going really well for me.

Things for the most part are going better than planned. I always try to do something and keep myself busy. And working so much. I'm thankfully getting another shot at this golf course thing I found out tonight. Lelani is In charge of hiring so. She wants me there. Finger crossed. I tried a year ago almost and didn't do well. I dont interview well and they asked me what was my weakest thing about me or
Something I could change. I told them that I wish I interviewed better. They didn't think I was outgoing. Which if u know me. I totes am! Very! But I clam up in to a ball of nerves. Kinda like I do with the ladies which is why I bomb that too it seems hahah.

So wish me luck on that. That will be a full time high paying job and that's what I need! And I won't have time for bullshit and derby will be my gf;) anyways I'm gonna switch over and talk about that now so check out my derby blog listed in my profile over on the right! Thanks for reading;)

~Jenn~

So I have been working like a mad woman...I keep this up and I plan to get out of debt by the end of Jan. Thats my plan. Im caught up on the important stuff..and slowly trying to buy things i need to live...that i lost recently. Its a bitch sharing shit..and then all that changes...each day i get better and better about life..am I still lost..yeah. People sometimes handle it differently..some people move on and welll..yeah....and well some people like me...reflect and say. well this is what i did wrong...this is what i did right..and this is why I am glad im done. its funny how you think you could know for certain what you wanted and really think they did too...then it means nothing like literally the week later.perks of being a lesbian..or something like that..I need to date an older woman..ahaha. but what can you do..i realized i thought to much about wanting to be with someone..thats i lost myself all over again.annnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnyways.....DERBY! starts back tomorrow! new facility...all the girls! I am excited!!! I need that to be back around...i need that distraction...i need to work out..

I have been losing weight..im not really proud how...meaning not eating..I am going to maybe visit a doc soon to see about my anxiety..i refuse to wanna take pills..giving everyone around me seems to be addicted to something..i cant be that. someone at work told me to smoke pot...i don't think i could go there either..ive tried...but ewe..i cant get use to it. im worried about working out tomorrow..i really do try to eat...its just with all that went on...now my stomach is like Nope...sorry! hahah..sucks...well it doesn't really...im not big into food anyways...but i know i need it. im sure once i get settled and get comfortable i will change that pattern and try to eat. like for real. Tomorrow im gonna venture to the PUMA store bc I got a gift card...and I am getting some new shoes...I am so excited...Just gonna go ahead think my best for that;) working out in converse...just doesn't feel great. hahah. My plan with derby this year is to keep a better tab on my blog about the season as it happens...I haven't written in the derby blog for awhile...but i will change that...so all you creepers...follow me there too;)

anyways...i worked a double today straight through..made enough to make a car payment...chilis has been good to me the past 2 weeks..im not complaining..i needed it bc i am drowning ...but I am super tired...its 1:03 and I am prolly gonna be up till 5am again..anyways..im getting distracted by lindsey on FB..hahahah im done writing...peace out!


~JenN~